Silence & Solitude

Shhhh is a universal term for “be quiet” when we hold our index finger to our lips and utter the “be quiet” sound we usually get compliance with our request. But how many times do we say to ourselves, “be quiet?” Do we observe times and seasons of silence?
Then, there’s the issue of solitude. Silence and solitude go hand in hand. It’s hard to be quiet when you’re in the midst of constant noise from others. Donald Whitney writes, “there are moments in our pressure-cooker days when years of escape to some hidden place sounds wistfully compelling to the Christian spirit.”
So how does one practice the disciplines of Silence & Solitude? Here are a few suggestions.

Every Day- set aside 5-10 minutes then find a place (home, office, car) where you can shut out most if not all distractions and noise. Spend time with God there regularly.
Weekly- schedule an hour or so somewhere where you will not be disturbed. Spend this time in prayer, reflection, and meditation on God’s word.
Monthly-calendar a half-day or day when you can be alone. Find an empty room at church, walk in the woods, rent a room at a cabin. During this lengthier time evaluate your life, your goals, your service. Prepare in advance for this time by reading a book on life-change. Set aside longer times quarterly and yearly.
We must plan and calendar these times. If you don’t fill your days, someone else will.